11.26.2015

5 Baby Things That Helped Me Survive

5 Baby Things That Helped Me Survive



Being a first time mom is an overwhelming experience. It's true what they say that no matter how many books you read and advice you heed, nothing will prepare you for it. It is an entirely different game play all on its own. Being away from my family makes it more challenging as it already is. Its a "just-me-and-hubby-myself-and-him-and-no-one-else" kind of thing.  Most of the time I've wished I have another pair of hands on me to round up what I'm doing. Thank goodness, our baby is a fuzzy furball who have graciously make us "endure" these hurdles lovingly.

But few months in there have been products that have made our life with the furball a bit easier. They are by far the products which we get to have most use from. They are those that we constantly find ourselves reaching for and couldn't imagine how much harder it would have been like if we didn't have them. As every situation is different these product are what suited our case. 



We have been living compactly and space has always been an issue. We needed something that would allow us to co sleep but without taking so much space. We also needed something that should we need to bring a cot with us when we travel it would also serve us well. So when we saw this item it was a no brainer. It has had some issues about it somewhere online, but as long as we follow the manufacturers instruction it's good enough for us.



Again the issue of space highlights the need for this product. It ticked everything we were looking for a bath. Light, good base support and most importantly space saver. It didn't hurt that it looks great either. We are lucky that our furball enjoys her night bath so much that this product is used everyday. Well worth the price.




One of the things I was determined to have was a bouncer. I always have this notion that I didn't want to confine my baby to her crib all the time. And as we haven't got much space for her to lounge around, I reckon that a bouncer would give her a different perspective of space. And this bouncer is super light and slim. It doesn't take so much space and not bulky. Even the toy arch is detachable and unobtrusive. Safe to say my furball loves being in this bouncer more than she loves her tummy time. 





If there's one thing I was sure and felt strongly about the whole time I was pregnant, it was breastfeeding my baby. Just like other mom I have this naive idea where I thought breastfeeding is easy and comes naturally. I got this pump only because I thought when eventually I'll get back to work I would express so I could give my furball breastmilk. And how wrong was I. First, bf was the hardest thing I ever had to embark postpartum. It didn't come naturally for me. I had to work hard on it. And when I say work, I really meant hard work. Both me and my furball together. Which made me so grateful to have this product at hand. It helped me when I was building my supply up. It relieved me from engorgement when furball was recovering from her tongue tie procedure. It helped me give her breastmilk when she couldn't latch properly, which until corrected caused pain, bleeding, thrush, blockage and so on and fort. As I've said I didn't have it easy but surely this product made it easier to bear. Its quiet, easy to use, portable and sturdy. Everything a first time mum would find useful. I was so glad to have this from the onset.


Ha! This app saves me grief. Big time. Having this means I didn't have to pour over a book when that's the least thing I wanted to do. It gives me all the information on understanding what my furball is going through and why she is doing what she currently does. It is very simple but packed with all the things a mum wanted and needed to know in coping with her baby. It guides you on your baby's development and at the same time answers most of your what, why, when, and how to's question. With this app I don't lose sleep over my furball's milestones. Which I think what every new mum (might) wants.


xxx



11.21.2015

Lines and Symmetry

Lines and Symmetry



“Nature creates curved lines while humans create straight lines.” 


There's something about lines and symmetry that calls out to me. I, most of the time, finds them beautiful and telling. Of what? Who knows. It just always resonates with me. Its clean and clear. No blurred lines.  Just good ol' point A to point B connection.




Maybe that's why I always have this irritating need to know what to do. To know what direction to take and next steps to make. To exactly know where the end of the road leads to. How to get from the beginning to the end. Which shows that I, can sometimes be an insufferable control freak. But hey that's me.

Nonetheless they are beautiful.


xxx

11.20.2015

New Beginning

New Beginning



Being a mom is just falling in love over and over again.

It has been a long while since I last updated this page. I have been embarking on my journey of motherhood that I have put this page on hold. Literally. But here I am now ready to continue. And as usual it will just be my little bit of space for my thoughts.



Now that I am done with the so called "4th trimester" suffice to say that I can now find some time to tip tap on the keyboard without my little peanut clinging on me. With breastfeeding and nappy change to daytime naps and tummy time, as a first time mom I was very much overwhelmed. With no one else but me and Reg, we soldiered on. And we survived to say the least.

Anyway bottom line is pregnancy, birth and motherhood was and is the most humbling and demanding experience I've ever gone through. It has given me the highest emotional high and the worst physical pain. Never felt so battered and torn yet ecstatic and overjoyed at the same time. So yeah, it took me a while to get back to this page.






xxx

4.19.2015

Throwback Jersey

Throwback Jersey




Just a short throwback post of our trip to Jersey, Channel Island. I don't think I ever posted this but as my broodiness continues it led me to remember this trip. I liked to call this our young, fun and free days so it only served to be rightly remembered. It was only for a weekend though if I'm right and we were graciously accommodated by our favourite people, Von and Tin and were shown around by their friends, I'm looking at you Maila, Dino and Ryan. So lucky of us.

As this trip was sans baby peanut and Caleb, surely next time we head this way would be their first meeting. Exciting times.






























3.13.2015

Barcelona Babymoon

Barcelona Babymoon




This I've got to say has been a trip years in the making. For one, after all this time, this year we decided to push through our focus board and go abroad. Which is about time to be honest. And second and most importantly was the fact that should we be blessed with our own little peanut we said we'd pay homage to either Trevi Fountain or Sagrada Familia. Obviously Sagrada won.

I used to imagine stuffing myself with chorizo, jamon, paella, churros, sangria and the likes when I go to this part of the world. Unfortunately, we went as I just clocked passing the first trimester and my tummy wasn't certainly up for it. I had but sadly stare on my list of restaurant to go to and food to eat. Tempting and torture. I did took a bite here and there but definitely far from the gobbling that I imagined.

Though we had to queue for at least 30mins to get into the church of Sagrada Famila it was truly the  highlight of our trip. It was just amazing and so worth the trip. Gaudi and how his mind worked is just out of this world. 

Closely following was the flamenco show at the Tablao Cordobles. The show just gave me goosebumps. I have loved flamenco since my college days and we would watch shows about it, but nothing, nothing prepared me for it.

We were lucky that the place we stayed at was walking distance to Las Ramblas, which was one of their main tourist strip. Few mins of walk and there you are again right smack in the middle of the crowd. It was also a bonus that the hotel was right at one of the exit of their metro train. Hence, moving about the city was breezy.

The city is just beautiful as I thought it would be, but also you can't escape the signs that the country is still struggling to get out of recession. There's even something about the vibe, a bit of muted vibrancy. It must be stunning during it's heyday and definitely in the future. Nonetheless, it is a beautiful city.